Computer love

Have you ever wondered where true love is? Well according to my cousins it is online at E-harmony or relationships.com. Supposedly both (who are sisters) have boyfriends that they found on line, nice boys whom they are pretty serious with. It has even become a contest for other couples who have used both sites as to which of my fair cousins will wed first, will it be Julia (competitor for e-harmony) or Lisa (competitor for relationships.com).

All that love has re-sparked my interest in trying out the computer online dating thing again. I say again because at one time I too had tried this avenue at Christian cafe.com. Unfortunately it seems that all the special needs people of the world (and lower mainland) were trying to find their mate in me. Between being the "sun to his moon" (ya a wee bit cultish and weird) to the ESL "you pretty, we marry" (Yah no, sorry Pedro but one e-mail does not constitute mail order bride). I even went out with one such person to find out he was out to "save" me from my insecurities...sorry I don't sleep with people on the first date and you licking my ear is definitely not sexy..drooly but not sexy!

Soooooo I have to say I am still in the thinking about it process...I have a different cousin who already has married her on line sweetheart. I guess its all down to taking a chance, trusting in God and making sure you prepare yourself for the weird adventures that may follow.